Making telephone outreach calls has always been a challenge for me,
mostly because I am always afraid that I am “bothering” someone when
they are busy. What seems to be a thoughtful gesture, considering the
other person, I have come to see that it has more to do with my fear of
being vulnerable or asking for help.

On my way to an OA retreat a few years ago, I had been rushing around
getting ready and forgot to pack something for lunch and the trip over there.
As I drove, the thoughts and cravings began as I watched signs go by with
names of restaurants and food places, and the urge to stop and partake
was strong. Just as I was about to take the next exit, I got a call from an
OA friend, and I told her of my plan… she offered some suggestions for
alternatives, and thankfully I stopped and got s grilled sandwich that fit my
food plan.

The other day, a similar thing happened as I was craving something I had
no business eating; I was on my way when I got a text from another OA
friend, and thankfully, I was able to regroup, come to my senses, return
home and have an abstinent snack of popcorn.

These are examples of how using the tool of the telephone can be a
blessing for you, the other person, or both. YOU NEVER KNOW when that
act of reaching out will make a difference in someone’s program or life. So,
next time a person comes to mind, take a minute and reach out… it just
might be what they need to stay on track, and it will also give YOU the
feeling of helping another!